Comments on: Ask A Gay http://www.agentlover.com/blog/2009/08/15/ask-a-gay/ Agent Lover Tue, 07 Feb 2012 23:17:18 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.2.1 By: melis http://www.agentlover.com/blog/2009/08/15/ask-a-gay/#comment-2067 melis Tue, 18 Aug 2009 21:46:09 +0000 http://www.agentlover.com/blog/?p=1901#comment-2067 guardian gayngel...LOL! great advice shaun! loved all of it :) guardian gayngel…LOL!

great advice shaun! loved all of it :)

]]> By: Levon http://www.agentlover.com/blog/2009/08/15/ask-a-gay/#comment-2066 Levon Tue, 18 Aug 2009 08:30:07 +0000 http://www.agentlover.com/blog/?p=1901#comment-2066 Okay, you're right: - no flame shirts - no beer bongs - no limp bizkit (like, won't even tolerate having a neighbor who listens to that. I'll live IN a refinery before living next door to a backwards baseball cap) - no shit pies Additionally - clean finger nails - tasteful jeans - bitchin' Criterion Collection - every George Michael album ever made...ever. Digital AND vinyl. A Japanese import too. - Not disconcerted about being viewed as gay, disconcerted about being as seen as something I'm not. read me? You hit the nail on the head though! Thanks for that! You MUST have some of Agent Lover's psychic powers flowing through you fo' sho'! GREAT PIECE! Okay, you’re right:
- no flame shirts
- no beer bongs
- no limp bizkit (like, won’t even tolerate having a neighbor who listens to that. I’ll live IN a refinery before living next door to a backwards baseball cap)
- no shit pies
Additionally
- clean finger nails
- tasteful jeans
- bitchin’ Criterion Collection
- every George Michael album ever made…ever. Digital AND vinyl. A Japanese import too.
- Not disconcerted about being viewed as gay, disconcerted about being as seen as something I’m not. read me?

You hit the nail on the head though! Thanks for that! You MUST have some of Agent Lover’s psychic powers flowing through you fo’ sho’!

GREAT PIECE!

]]> By: Pikki Nikki Polka Pants http://www.agentlover.com/blog/2009/08/15/ask-a-gay/#comment-2065 Pikki Nikki Polka Pants Mon, 17 Aug 2009 16:31:28 +0000 http://www.agentlover.com/blog/?p=1901#comment-2065 this is way bitchin'. and SHAUNIE, my other Seany was readin' this last night; had nothin' but compliments fo' yo' ass. LUVZ IT bb. xo this is way bitchin’. and SHAUNIE, my other Seany was readin’ this last night; had nothin’ but compliments fo’ yo’ ass.
LUVZ IT bb.
xo

]]> By: Pick N Mix – Week Starting 17 August 2009 | Cupcakes and Mace http://www.agentlover.com/blog/2009/08/15/ask-a-gay/#comment-2064 Pick N Mix – Week Starting 17 August 2009 | Cupcakes and Mace Mon, 17 Aug 2009 09:36:14 +0000 http://www.agentlover.com/blog/?p=1901#comment-2064 [...] Lover introduces a new feature ‘Ask a Gay‘. This month Shaun answers “What happens if 2 bottoms or 2 tops fall in love? does that [...] [...] Lover introduces a new feature ‘Ask a Gay‘. This month Shaun answers “What happens if 2 bottoms or 2 tops fall in love? does that [...]

]]> By: Mickay http://www.agentlover.com/blog/2009/08/15/ask-a-gay/#comment-2063 Mickay Mon, 17 Aug 2009 07:33:09 +0000 http://www.agentlover.com/blog/?p=1901#comment-2063 so cute!!! i love you shaunie!!! WHOSE GOT SOME QUESTIONS FOR DIS DYKE RIGH' HURRR? so cute!!! i love you shaunie!!! WHOSE GOT SOME QUESTIONS FOR DIS DYKE RIGH’ HURRR?

]]> By: Shaun http://www.agentlover.com/blog/2009/08/15/ask-a-gay/#comment-2062 Shaun Mon, 17 Aug 2009 03:18:06 +0000 http://www.agentlover.com/blog/?p=1901#comment-2062 @ Anna - Thanks! Will do! @ Anna – Thanks! Will do!

]]> By: Shaun http://www.agentlover.com/blog/2009/08/15/ask-a-gay/#comment-2061 Shaun Sun, 16 Aug 2009 23:36:51 +0000 http://www.agentlover.com/blog/?p=1901#comment-2061 @ Melly - I think you are way over thinking the definition of the word and imbuing it with more power than it deserves. And you are correct, you have not censored me. However, I would also like remind you that I am a gay male and a total bossy bottom at that. And proud of it! I am a bit surprised that you're 'surprised' considering you don't know me on a personal level, so it could seem you may also be stereotyping in the sense that you would expect all gays to feel the same way about this subject as the "few men who bottom" you know. These bottom men you make reference to may also be SCREAMING prissy bitches behind closed doors. You don't know. This platform is not intended to deem me as the spokesperson for the entire gay community. I am just one person, trying to answer some questions here and get some laughs out of it. I am glad you enjoyed the rest of my piece. My answers, just like life, should never be taken too seriously. @ Melly – I think you are way over thinking the definition of the word and imbuing it with more power than it deserves. And you are correct, you have not censored me. However, I would also like remind you that I am a gay male and a total bossy bottom at that. And proud of it! I am a bit surprised that you’re ‘surprised’ considering you don’t know me on a personal level, so it could seem you may also be stereotyping in the sense that you would expect all gays to feel the same way about this subject as the “few men who bottom” you know. These bottom men you make reference to may also be SCREAMING prissy bitches behind closed doors. You don’t know.

This platform is not intended to deem me as the spokesperson for the entire gay community. I am just one person, trying to answer some questions here and get some laughs out of it.

I am glad you enjoyed the rest of my piece. My answers, just like life, should never be taken too seriously.

]]> By: Melly http://www.agentlover.com/blog/2009/08/15/ask-a-gay/#comment-2060 Melly Sun, 16 Aug 2009 22:05:27 +0000 http://www.agentlover.com/blog/?p=1901#comment-2060 @ Shaun- well, yes. Saying that bottoms are more feminine (which is what I assume you're implying, because femininity and masculinity are considered polar traditionally) than masculine tops is heteronormative. Additionally, I know quite a few men who 'bottom' who consider themselves quite traditionally masculine. Correlation =/= causation. Of course you can say what you want. I haven't tried to censor you as far as I know. You have posted what you have to say on a public forum and I felt free to respond. I certainly enjoyed the rest of your piece-- it just surprised me to hear you express that particular sentiment about masculinity. @ Shaun- well, yes. Saying that bottoms are more feminine (which is what I assume you’re implying, because femininity and masculinity are considered polar traditionally) than masculine tops is heteronormative. Additionally, I know quite a few men who ‘bottom’ who consider themselves quite traditionally masculine. Correlation =/= causation.

Of course you can say what you want. I haven’t tried to censor you as far as I know. You have posted what you have to say on a public forum and I felt free to respond. I certainly enjoyed the rest of your piece– it just surprised me to hear you express that particular sentiment about masculinity.

]]> By: Shaun http://www.agentlover.com/blog/2009/08/15/ask-a-gay/#comment-2059 Shaun Sun, 16 Aug 2009 21:19:01 +0000 http://www.agentlover.com/blog/?p=1901#comment-2059 @ Melly - The result of a lack of a better word. Would you have preferred that I used level of 'topness' or 'bottomness?' Besides, I AM fucking gay myself. I'll say what I want. Perhaps the gal featured in "Ask a Lesbian" can word it better for you in her segment next month. @ Melly – The result of a lack of a better word. Would you have preferred that I used level of ‘topness’ or ‘bottomness?’ Besides, I AM fucking gay myself. I’ll say what I want.

Perhaps the gal featured in “Ask a Lesbian” can word it better for you in her segment next month.

]]> By: Limespark http://www.agentlover.com/blog/2009/08/15/ask-a-gay/#comment-2058 Limespark Sun, 16 Aug 2009 20:55:39 +0000 http://www.agentlover.com/blog/?p=1901#comment-2058 Haha, hilarious AND informative! I do believe I have a crush. :) Haha, hilarious AND informative! I do believe I have a crush. :)

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